25% of children and young people in the U.K will experience the death of a parent, sibling or grandparent. Many of these children and young people will feel alone and different. As we grieve we often struggle to support each other, being enmeshed in our own grief and unable to cope with the grief of others in the family. A death in the family can sometimes be anticipated, even though we hope it won't actually happen and a miracle will occur. Other deaths are often sudden and unpredicted, e.g through accidents, suicide or murder. However a death happens and no matter who it happens to, the feelings are the same, even if the impact and ramifications differ.
Many of the looked after young people, unaccompanied asylum seekers and young people struggling to cope in school or with substance misuse and crime have also experienced the death of someone close to them but have not had the space and time to develop the strategies to cope with the pain, loss and anger which instead has bottled up until it explodes. |